Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Think before saying something.

You know , for once I wanna say this to everyone. Think before you say anything to anyone. You'll never know what you say might cause a bad fight between a friends or what. May be to you, what you said was a joke. But jokes can turn to be a big problem and will effect others feelings or reputation.
I will not mention names here, but you should know who you are. I'm blogging this as a favor to you. A reminder NOT to do the same mistake again.
You said to me you've got prove of what the rumors spreading is true. So I told 'that' person. I yelled at her just to know the truth. But when I asked YOU, you said that it was a lie. You lied about having the prove. Come on la weh! Grow up! You might just think that you 'tipu' for fun, but hey! because of your 'tipu-ness' it has cause peoples feelings, reputation and friends fighting with friends.
You see, this things happens because YOU don't think before you joke around. Everyone has feelings. Yes, some of the rumors MIGHT be true. But it's not all true. And please, if you have the prove, then show it. But if you don't, then don't get involve in peoples relationship or personal life. Its their life, let them do whatever they wanna do with it. If what they're doing is wrong, then you just advice and if that person doesn't want to listen, then ignore. At least you've done your part as a friend.
So I'm telling you this, if you do not have the prove of the rumors spreading, please go to the person who you've offended their feelings and apologize. You'll never know when you're gonna die. And what happens if you die tomorrow but you didn't have the chance to say sorry to 'that' person? You'll go straight to hell for offending peoples feelings.
And I'm sorry if I mentioned your names to 'that' person. I am just telling the truth to the 'mangsa'. I pity her. I mentioned your names because YOU GUYS said you've seen the proves. So I asked 'her' for the truth because YOU GUYS said you've seen the prove. So its not wrong for me to mention your names. You shouldn't be the one mad at me. I'm the one who should be angry here. Because you guys lied to me, and you guys have made my friendship with 'that' person gone just like that. If you have seen the prove, why should you be angry and scared? If its true that you've seen the truth, STAND UP FOR WHAT IS RIGHT!
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